Category Archives: isolation
Pondering Panic
“For me, a panic attack is almost a violent experience. I feel disconnected from reality. I feel like I’m losing control in a very extreme way. My heart pounds really hard, I feel like I can’t get my breath, and there’s an overwhelming feeling that things are crashing in on me.” “It started 10 years [...]
The Corrosiveness of Social Anxiety
“In any social situation, I felt fear. I would be anxious before I even left the house, and it would escalate as I got closer to a college class, a party, or whatever. I would feel sick in my stomach-it almost felt like I had the flu. My heart would pound, my palms would get [...]
Losers Get Loved More Gently
Often we struggle, with depression and despondency. A lot of people don’t understand us and they walk away. This really hurts, and so we isolate ourselves even more. We can feel not only forsaken, but cursed. We see ourselves as consummate losers. But these things shouldn’t separate us from our Father’s love. I think He loves “his [...]
The Curse of Social Isolation
Quite a few studies now out, revealing the reality of social isolation. It seems more and more people are veering away from social contact. A Duke University study found that Americans are choosing to become more solitary than ever. Many are eschewing all relations all together. This is a problem. I’ve seen some of the statistics– fully 25% of [...]
Riding the Underground with Jesus
“And he said to them, “Come away by yourselves to a desolate place and rest a while.” For many were coming and going, and they had no leisure even to eat.’ Mark 6:31, ESV Our Savior would never drive us to do things with a whip. He is not a taskmaster, and he will [...]
The School of Friends
As soon as he had finished speaking to Saul, the soul of Jonathan was knit to the soul of David, and Jonathan(A) loved him as his own soul. 1 Samuel 18:1 But Ruth said, “Do not urge me to leave you or to return from following you. For where you go I will [...]
Are You Interruptable?
May the Lord make your love increase and overflow for each other and for everyone else, just as ours does for you. 1 Thess. 3:12 I think there is an awesome need for Christians who can be interrupted. They have learned that their personal plans and agendas should be set aside for the [...]







Loneliness and Depression Are Best Friends
Depression and loneliness walk hand-in-hand. When one of them pays a visit, the other is ready to join in. Often when we try to deal with our loneliness we’ll find depression just around the corner waiting. How ironic is this? Depressed people tend to suffer in silence and isolate themselves from the outside world. When [...]