“For the Lord corrects those he loves,
just as a father corrects a child in whom he delights.”
Prov. 3:12, NLT
Interesting. Some people get a double-dip. If you are a loved son/daughter you have the tremendous honor of being loved and also of being disciplined. My own son is disciplined because I love him so much. He’s my boy and I love him even more than my own life. When I do need to correct him, it is that love that makes it possible. If I didn’t really love him, I would let him do his thing without any discipline at all. It would be easier.
To be left alone, with no correction or discipline is to be in a difficult place. It smacks of abandonment. Or of being cast-off or sent away. It can be worse then abuse.
And have you forgotten the encouraging words God spoke to you as his children? He said,
“My child, don’t make light of the Lord’s discipline,
and don’t give up when he corrects you.
For the Lord disciplines those he loves,
and he punishes each one he accepts as his child.”
The connection between a loving and caring Father, and you will require you to cooperate with His correction. The writer of Hebrews knew the frail nature of people. The writer knew that people would be tempted to quit– it is so hard. “Don’t give up” in verse 5. That means we will be tempted do so, to walk away and quit. People do it all the time. It is easy.
“As you endure this divine discipline, remember that God is treating you as his own children. Who ever heard of a child who is never disciplined by its father? 8 If God doesn’t discipline you as he does all of his children, it means that you are illegitimate and are not really his children at all. 9 Since we respected our earthly fathers who disciplined us, shouldn’t we submit even more to the discipline of the Father of our spirits, and live forever?”
God loves you. God loves you so much that He wants to change you. Understanding that you are a son or a daughter in His family makes life worth living.
- Step 8 Remember God Disciplines Those He Loves (shareaverse.wordpress.com)
- How to Best Respond to Correction (kellylevatino.com)
- Why is Correction So Hard to Take Since it is So Good For You?? (simplyjuliana.wordpress.com)